Printable: Romance Scam Warning Signs

A checklist to go through together if you or someone you love has a new online relationship. Updated October 25, 2026.

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If someone you’ve only met online asks for money, it’s a scam.

Tick any that are true

  • ☐ We’ve never met in person or on a live video call.
  • ☐ Plans to meet keep getting canceled.
  • ☐ They work overseas, on an oil rig, or in the military abroad.
  • ☐ They said “I love you” very quickly.
  • ☐ They asked to move to a private messaging app.
  • ☐ They asked me to keep us a secret.
  • ☐ They’ve asked for money, gift cards, crypto or a wire transfer.
  • ☐ They’ve suggested an investment or trading app.
  • ☐ They’ve asked me to receive or forward money or packages.

One or more ticks? Stop sending money and talk to someone you trust.

Quick checks

  • Do a reverse image search of their photos.
  • Search their job and story with the word “scammer.”
  • Ask for a live video call today.

Sent money? Call your bank or payment company now, then report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov. Juggling Chaos · jugglingchaos.co/romance-scams-warning-signs

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